At Lakeview Christian Church of Portage Lakes, our mission is to “Be the change as Jesus has changed us.” This transformation is deeply rooted in understanding true love, which is not merely about acceptance but about encouraging growth and positive change. In a world that often equates love with unconditional acceptance, we are called to a higher standard of love—one that seeks the best for others, even when it requires difficult conversations.
The Misconception of Love
The world frequently tells us that love means accepting someone exactly as they are, without asking them to change. This perspective suggests that true love is about inclusion without transformation. However, this view can lead to apathy, where we fail to address harmful behaviors or destructive paths. True love, as modeled by Jesus, involves stepping in and guiding others away from harm.
Consider Proverbs 27:5-6, which states, “Better is open rebuke than hidden love. Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses.” This scripture highlights the value of honest, loving correction over superficial acceptance. True love is willing to risk discomfort for the sake of another’s well-being.
God’s Loving Correction
Scripture tells us that God disciplines those He loves. Hebrews 12:6 says, “For the Lord disciplines the one he loves, and chastises every son whom he receives.” God’s corrections are not punitive but are meant to guide us toward a life that reflects His holiness and love. His discipline is a sign of His deep care for us, not a rejection.
In Revelation 3:19, Jesus says, “Those whom I love, I rebuke and discipline. So be earnest and repent.” This call to repentance is an invitation to align our lives with God’s will, leading to true freedom and joy.
Application to Our Mission
At Lakeview, we are committed to “Study” to understand God’s love and His desire for our growth. This involves delving into scripture to grasp the depth of His love and the ways He calls us to change. By understanding His love, we can better reflect it in our interactions with others.
“Share” this understanding by lovingly guiding others in truth, even when it’s difficult. This means having the courage to speak up when we see someone heading down a destructive path, offering guidance and support.
“Serve” by being a supportive community that encourages growth and transformation. This involves creating an environment where people feel safe to grow and change, knowing they are supported by a loving community.
Conclusion: True love is not passive acceptance but active engagement in each other’s lives, encouraging growth and change. As we embrace this love, we fulfill our mission to “Be the change as Jesus has changed us.” By doing so, we reflect the love of our Heavenly Father, who loves us too much to leave us unchanged.
